Invite Only Dating

 

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  • What is Invite Only Dating all about?
    Invite Only Dating is a dating service with a twist. Invite Only Dating is the world's first fully integrated online speed dating service. It gives you the excitement and fun of a real speed dating from the safety and comfort of your own home. Meet up to 10 people in one speed dating session. Interact with people through live chat. Huge FREE after date service. Pay as you go with no hidden fees. Safe and private. Check out the 'About Invite Only Dating' section for more information.
  • Do I have to pay to become a member?
    You DO NOT have to pay to become a member of Invite Only Dating, and there are NO ongoing or monthly fees. Fees are only charged for speed dating Credits, which you simply purchase as needed, allowing you to participate in a speed dating session.
  • How many people will I meet in a speed dating session?
    In each speed dating session you will meet 10 people. Based on the mix of people who sign into a session, you may occasionally meet between 8 to 10 people. You will never meet less than 8 people in a speed dating session and that is guaranteed!
  • What do I pay for and how much does it cost?
    Invite Only Dating operates on Credits. A single Credit costs $14.95 and allows you to participate in 1 speed dating session. You ONLY ever pay for the sessions that you go into. Pay for a session, go into a session. That’s all! There is NO JOIN UP FEE and NO ONGOING FEE for using the service and keeping in touch with your contacts after a dating session, which is absolutely FREE!
  • What happens in a date session?
    A date session begins with you chatting to the first of ten people. After chatting to this person for 5 minutes, you will have 1 minute to critique the date and be introduced to you next date. This process happens 10 times to make up a 1 hour dating session. At the completion of the session, all of the people you have met become your contacts.
  • What's my password and how do I change it?
    Once you sign up, your password will be emailed to you. If you would like to change your password, click in to your profile and select 'Edit Profile'. In here there is a section which allows you to enter a new password. Simply click 'Submit' and you're done.
  • How long does a date session go for?
    A date session goes for 1 hour.
  • What is SMS notification?
    SMS notification is a warning system designed to alert you about your commitment to a Speed Dating Session in which you have booked into. A text message is sent to your mobile phone (2 hours) prior the commencement of the Speed Dating Session. This is a free service and you will not be charged any additional cost to your session or to your mobile phone account. You will only receive (2) SMS notifications per session you have booked into. To receive SMS notification simply email INVITE ONLY DATING with your USER NAME and MOBILE NUMBER
  • What is a contact?
    Much like other networking sites, the people that you meet on Invite Only Dating become a Contact. All of these people are met via a dating session. As a Contact you may chat, email, and view the profile of that person.
  • How is the selection criteria for the Speed Dating Sessions based?
    The selection process is based on age and location. As with real face-to-face speed dating we have no control over exactly who will be joining the sessions, therefore these preferences cannot be guaranteed.
  • How do I book in to a speed dating session?
    To book into a speed dating session, simply click on the 'Date Sessions' link on the left-hand navigation bar. This will display the speed dating sessions which are available for you to book into. On the right side you may change the display of available sessions for 'This Week' and 'This Month'.
  • How do you enter a session, which I have booked into?
    To enter into your booked session simply log in, then click the highlighted bar with the count down timer, which is located at the top of My Home. This will appear 1 hour before the session starts. When you click into the Speed Dating Session you will be shown the remaining time until your session begins.
  • When should I book in for a speed dating session?
    Speed dating sessions work on a 'First in' policy, therefore we recommend that you book in to sessions as early as possible (1 week prior to the session time). As with real speed dating, booking is early will reduce the chance that you will be left out of the speed dating session, as this may happen to late comers due to the number of other daters.
  • What can I do after a speed dating session?
    After you've completed a dating session, everyone you meet becomes your contact. Once they’re a contact, you can send free emails, initiate live chat and check out their profiles out as much as you like. This is always FREE, as long as you’re a member, which is also FREE!
  • I haven't received any emails for Invite Only Dating.
    Your mail service may from time to time block messages from our server. This is easily fixed, by adding (admin@inviteonlydating.com) to your contacts.
  • Will I ever book in to a session and not be able to participate?
    As with real speed dating, there is a possibility that you may be declined from a speed dating session, even if you have booked into it. This will occur due to the 'First In' policy and the number of participants who have booked in to a particular session. If this occurs, your Credit will not be consumed. To avoid this we recommend booking into a speed dating session as early as possible.
  • What is 'My Hot List'?
    'My HotList' is a shortcuts area to the contacts which you interact with often. You may chose as many contacts as you like to appear in this area, and this allows you to quickly jump to the persons profile. You can select whether or not a contact appears in 'My HotList' from 'My Contacts'.
  • Is my personal information secure?
    Yes, Invite Only Dating uses security encryption (128bit SSL) so all of your information is secure. We take your privacy very seriously, and as such we do not store any of your credit card details on our systems. All your personal information will only be disclosed to your Invite Only Dating contacts, and will never be disclosed to any third parties.
  • How long do you retain my information?
    Invite Only Dating will retain your information for as long as you are a member of the site or as long as we are required to do so by law, whichever is longer.
  • Do you monitor online behaviour?
    While as a rule we do not monitor online exchanges through dating sessions, instant messages and in site emails, we reserve the right to do so if we suspect that a user is under the age of 18, using the site inappropriately, or harassing other members. Invite Only Dating also reserves the right to edit, modify or delete any inappropriate or obscene profile pictures or comments on user’s profiles.
  • What information do you gather automatically from visitors?
    Invite Only Dating does not automatically gather any information from visitors. Invite Only Dating will obtain your IP address only to assist us in maintaining our site and identifying problems with our systems. Your IP address does not disclose any information about you. Invite Only Dating uses cookies to identify when you return to the site and to create a more user friendly and personalised experience.
  • What information will you ask me for?
    When you register to use any Invite Only Dating service you will be asked for some general identifying information which allows us to determine what dating sessions you should enter, for example your age, location, sexual preference and your gender. Invite Only Dating does not hold your credit card details on our systems. Transactions are managed through our highly secure online provider 'eMatters'.
  • How do I Delete my Account?
    Invite Only Dating will delete your account if you write to us and specify your user name and why you wish to delete your account.
  • What happens if I have an issue with another user?
    If you feel that you have been acted to inappropriately by another user during a dating session you can immediately cancel the date, or if they are already your contact you can block or delete this person from your contacts so that they cannot see you online, chat or send messages to you. You can also contact our moderators through our 'Contact Us' page, and we will investigate the issue and take necessary action against the offending user.
  • What happens if I have a question that isn’t covered here?
    If you have any further questions which are not answered on this page, you can email us from the 'Contact Us' page and we will get back to you ASAP.
  • Do my credits ever expire?
    Due to banking obligations obligations, Credits will expire 180 days after your last login to the Invite Only Dating site.
  • Having trouble logging in?
    If you are having trouble logging in, please ensure that you are using the correct uppercase and lowercase letters for your username and password. These are both case sensitive. Also, if you have forgoten your password, if can be emailed to you by selecting the 'Forgot Password?' function from the home page.